City Councilman Fletcher…I Kinda Like The Ring Of That
Thursday, July 8th, 2010Dibi Answers Your Questions
Thursday, July 1st, 2010
Hey Dibi,
Love your style. May I ask if you went to college and if you did, which one? - Mark Finney
Dibi: Thanks! No, I didn’t go to college; I ran away from home with Herb when I was 16.
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Hey Dibi,
What happened to ballroom dancing? You rock Mama Fletcher! - Josiah
Dibi: It was a great time; lots of rhinestones, feathers and cha-cha-chaaa. But I got really into writing and life took an unexpected turn into an HBO adventure.
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Hey Dibi,
What is your favorite movie, book, color, song, past time, drink, dessert? - Theresa Cooper
Dibi: I don’t really have one special favorite, but I’ll try to give you an idea. I like the ’40s classics when women were dames. Fiction, the authors who wrote the books the movies were adapted from like James M. Cain, Raymond Chandler, Dashell Hammett, etc.. Their dialogue was tough, smart and spare. Non-fiction, I read everything; from spiritual to political history. For color, I like black - for the same reason I like the writer’s dialogue. For songs, I like early blues and Jimi Hendrix was the soundtrack of my youth and I think it’s certainly relevant today. Past time, I’m kinda working like crazy right now, so I’ll have to get back to you on that. I drink water and don’t eat dessert. And, girl, I’ve just bored myself to death. I’m sure your eyes are glassed over, and I’m sure you’re sliding into a state of unconsciousness by now.
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Hey Dibi,
Fletcher family come to Japan when? Snowboard extreme with Nathan in 1990s I did! - Kenji Sakamoto
Dibi: I’m not sure on the dates. It was a very bizarre trip but lots of fun.
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Hey Dibi,
Great to see your grandson Greyson being blown up. He tears it up! My question is, how do you think Christian measures up to being a dad compared to how Herbie was as a dad? - Baked Smithy
Dibi: I don’t measure. They’re so different personally, and the situations were nothing the same, so I think the smartest way to look at life is for what it is and not judge. No good ever comes from that as far as I can see. I’m grateful we’re all together.
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Hey Dibi,
How would you define your life with one word, and to countact that, in one paragraph? - Ray L.
Dibi: Blessed! I’ve been married for at least 100 years, my sons are healthy, my grandson is living with me. Business is tough as hell, but we all laugh everyday. That’s success!
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Hey Dib,
I really like cats of all kinds, do you? Do you have any pets? - TNT
Dibi: I’ve always adored cats. But CF, Herb and Greyson are plenty to take care of right now, and if it shits and eats it seems to come under the category of my job, so my plate at present is full.
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Hey Dibi!
If you knew you only had one more day on earth, what would you do? Name it all! - Jensen Montgomery
Dibi: If I had a magic wand or something, perhaps I could give you some grandiose plan, but as I’m just me, I’d do exactly what I’m doing.
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Hey Dibi,
If you had to, where else would you live besides San Clemente, California? - Gina Gomez
Dibi: I’ve been able to live in a couple of pretty great places…I’m happy here right now. But I guess as long as I can take the tribe any place, it would be cool.
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Hey Dibi (and Herbie),
Ever think of publishing your own magazine? I know you guys have many, many photos and a lot of material! What about “The D-side” for online publication or even print perhaps? - Gary Ellis
Dibi: I think we’re in the process, don’t you?
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Hey Dibi,
What is something very passive that Christian is involved in? I know he likes to race bikes, surf, skate, etc.. But what’s something mellow that he likes to do? - Howie Johnston
Dibi: Christian likes to play Facebook poker!
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Hey Dibi,
“Hey Dibi” is AWESOME! The D-Side is awesome! Interviewing Greyson WOULD BE EVEN MORE AWESOME! Is this in the works? - Connor Watters
Dibi: You bet!!!
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Hey Dibi,
What is your real name and do you have any tattoos? – Nicole
Dibi: Debra is my given name but the only one who’s ever called me that is my Dad because he can’t say Dibi. And, no, thankfully I don’t have to be constantly reminded of how stupid I’ve been.
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Hey Dibi,
Greyson can skate his ass off. I was just up around Santa Cruz and San Jose. 4 sweet parks up there that will make the hair on the back of your neck pop with all the pools and pipes any one person could handle. Is Greyson pro or am at this stage in the game? He rips is all I can say. Keep the photos coming. P.S. Did you guys shoot these shots? - Chance
Dibi: What’s the difference nowadays? Greyson’s skating great and really enjoying it. Herb shot the photos and he and a couple of other friends shot the more recent footage.
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Hey Dibi,
I read once that Nathan said in a mag interview that you ruled with an iron fist and Christian said the only thing he was scared of in life was you. What is your reaction to this? - Mike Rogan
Dibi: They’re so full of it!
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Hey Dibi,
Greyson is a SICK SKATER!!! But no surfing footage? Come on! What’s up with that? - Caleb Howdigan
Dibi: It’s on the way.
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Hey Dibi,
Totally loved your artwork, “I See Buddhas Everywhere”! Who are you inspirations and who’s style do you like as far as art goes? - Jaxon
Dibi: I’m inspired by everything and enjoy all kinds of styles.
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Hey Dibi,
Appreciated the post about Marvin. Knew he was one of the original Wave Warriors. How far back do you guys go with him? Rip bruddah. - Bob Tyson
Dibi: I knew Marvin as a teenager, so that’s quite a few years ago.
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Hey Dibi,
Anytime soon you guys are gonna revive epic, fucking balls-out shit again like you did with Wave Warriors and A.S.S (Adrenaline Surf Series)? Fuck Taylor Steele faggot shit! - Ivan P.
Dibi: We’re working on a documentary, along with a zillion other things that we hope people will find interesting. I think surfing needs the sand back in it!
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Hey Dibi,
So, ok, you guys don’t want anything to do with “John From Cincinatti”. But would you guys do something again with mainstream Hollywood? Like maybe a movie? - Johnny Klintney
Dibi: Only if I had some control.
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Hey Dibi,
I reread CF’s “The Human Touch” from 1990 or something. He lists hummus and beets as his fave food. Is he a vegetarian, Dibi? - Michael Dante
Dibi: He was raised as one, but out on his own he has made other choices.
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Hey Dibi,
I’m looking forward to more D-Side! You gonna interview Herbie or Nathan for that? - T.S.
Dibi: I’m sure they’ll all eventually have their say.
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Hey Dibi,
Back in the early ’70s there was a small bikini company, I believe they were called Bohemialoque (spelling?), and I thought you had maybe modeled for them with your sister Joyce. Did you? Just curious. And thanks! -Ryan Cueller
Dibi: No, Joyce and I had a typically hateful sister relationship as youngsters.
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Hey Dibi,
Was there ever a company or sponsor that you thought Nathan and Christian should have rode for and represented but they turned down? And btw, I think you’re doing a great job, Dibi. Thanks for the insight and laughs! -Kersten Lyndsay
Dibi: I tried to let them make their own choices, so they had the chance to learn from them instead of blaming me if things didn’t go well. Wow, great plan in theory. Things didn’t always work out so well, but so much in life sounds better on paper.
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Hey there Dibi,
Did you ever feel left out because it was Boys Only Club? Or did they include you in everything? By “they” I mean Herbie, Christian, and Nathan. - SB Local
Dibi: Left out, sometimes one could only hope. I’m like the glue, a necessity that they all count on.
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Hey Dibi,
What drives you absoltely NUTS? Angry? Pissed off?! - Bill Carlsson
Dibi: Not much anymore, what’s the use it just totally screws up your day and doesn’t change things one bit.
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Hey Dibi,
Does Gavin Beschen still ride for Astrodeck? He rips! - Sandy Grossman
Dibi: Yes, just saw him the other day and he said he’d be back soon and do an interview for the D-Side.
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Hey Dibi,
What do you look forward to 10 years from now? Where do you see Christian and Nathan and Herbie and yourself 10 years from now? - Cara Albert
Dibi: Hopefully I’ll still be working, writing, making art and interviewing people I find interesting. I think that the guys will probable be doing the same as well.
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Hey Dibi,
What are you very proud of when it comes to Nathan and CF that has NOTHING to do with surfing and skating? - Nance Hutchinson
Dibi: Their ability to be my friend.
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Hey Dibi,
Yo waddup Dibi, here’s a question. I noticed a lot of Greyson on this site lately. That’s pretty cool. Always thought he should be more seen out there with his skillz. Who are his sponsors right now? - Tony Jimenez
Dibi: Right now he’s pretty much self-sponsored and having the time of his life surfing and skating with his Dad.
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Hey Dibi,
Do you read everything written about your family or do you ignore it for the most part? - Scott Schneider
Dibi: I mostly ignore it. Most journalists want to talk all sorts of mad shit about you to make a name for themselves, so I usually don’t bother.
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Hey Dibi,
Was Christian the type of kid who liked bedtime stories? - Shawna Handley
Dibi: Yes, I read to him and Nathan every night when they were young.
The D-Side with Kyle Turley, Part 1
Monday, April 12th, 2010PART 1 of our series interview with ex-NFL New Orleans Saints offensive tackle Kyle Turley. While on tour with Hank 3, Kyle stopped by the Astrodeck headquarters and did an interview with Dibi Fletcher. Yeah, my mom. This interview, among many others yet to come, will be featured on www.christianfletchersurf.com and will be called “The D-Side”. Man, there’s just too much talent stuffed into one person. Gifted motherfucker; Football player, musician, surfer…ladies and gentleman, check it out. Kyle Fucking Turley!
You Guys Keep Asking, She Keeps Answering!
Monday, March 8th, 2010Here’s another installment of “Hey Dibi”…the series where you ask my mom anything…and I do mean, ANYTHING, and she’ll give you the God’s honest truth of what she thinks. Don’t be afraid to bring up anything and don’t be afraid to hear what she has to say. Mom never holds back!
Oh, and check out this photo. Pretty cool, huh? Bruce Weber took it at my grandparent’s house. It’s one of my favorites of me and my mom.
Hey Dibi,
Do you enjoy being a mother? Or better yet, do you enjoy being Christian’s mother?
- Mark Moises
Dibi: It’s been an amazing adventure; extreme highs and lows and everything in-between. What a LIFE!!!
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Hey Dibi,
Dibi, hello! What is it like running your own company, Astrodeck, with your husband? Do you get tired of working with each other?
- Evelyn Kinski
Dibi: I’ve never worked for anyone else, so I can’t compare it with other jobs. But I think we work well together. Some of it’s quite interesting, some of it sucks, but I’m grateful to have had the opportunity to work in an environment where we can be creative and do some fun wacky things. Like, how many people get the chance to do something as bizarre as this? Like, who the hell cares what I think?!? Do I get tired of working with each other? That would be DUH!!! But after so many years of living and working together, I can’t imagine it any other way…and some of it’s pure comedy!!!
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Hey Dibi,
What virtue do you think is overrated and one you stand by fiercely?
- Patrick O’Malley
Dibi: All that hand-slapping “bro” bullshit…so phony…but get in trouble and most of those guys are gone like the wind. I’ve always tried to be a FRIEND and that means no matter what!!!
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Hey Dibi,
There is this gross, ugly, smelly Mexican that won’t stop coming by my house and calling me. I think he might have stolen my son’s iPhone. What to do? He thinks I’m into that.
- Lisa Humphreys
Dibi: Get a hand gun and a rottweiler. Like, really!!!
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Hey Dibi,
What really pisses you off?
- Senton Crowley
Dibi: There’s kind of a list, but, if I had to choose…maybe one thing related to business, I hate being treated like the little woman. That international customers want to only talk to Herbie, what a joke. You know, like most chicks, it’s the little stuff that blows my mind.
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Hey Dibi,
Congrats to you and Herbie! You guys are great! What’s the secret to your success?
- Henry Mous
Go to your corners! Most women want to talk about what’s brothering them but when I’m feeling great, all’s well. When I’m tried, just like everyone else, life’s a bitch. I go ride my bike, go to my own room, where ever to be alone and relax and rejuvenate and everything feels much better. It’s not Herb’s responsibility to make me feel good, it’s mine. I don’t know if it was personal info you wanted or business, but if I’m not clear you can always write and ask again.
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Hey Dibi,
Admit it, Dibi, you smoke the herb right? LOL, it’s cool, you can tell me.
- Hector Bartiza
Dibi: Oh, there are a few things in life that I like to leave to the imagination.
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Hey Dibi,
Did the Fletchers vote for Obama?
- Jeff Walden
Dibi; Hope and change…um!
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Hey Dibi,
What do you love about your sons? What do you love about Nathan and what do you love about Christian?
- Megan Rocha
Dibi: I learned a valuable lesson years ago from a very dear friend of mine about love. It’s not how you feel about them but about how they make you feel about yourself. That’s the gift. I adore them both and they’re so different but when they say “Hey Mom…” and they’re talkin’ to me, it’s GRAND…
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Hey Dibi,
Dibi were you a conventional mother or a hippie? I do not know much about you but for you to answer questions for CF’s site makes you pretty cool in my book. Love the answers you give too. Thanks for the laughs!
- David Paulsen
Dibi: Well, I guess I started out as a hippie. I ran away from home with Herb when I was sixteen. Life was great, the beach was perfect, the waves in front of the house were unreal. Then life started to kinda get in the way, you know, responsibility has a tendency to do that. WOW, kids. So it was time to grow up. Christian started goin’ off pretty early and someone had to be there to be counted on. Is that conventional? I don’t think much in my life would be looked at as conventional, and I don’t think I could have enjoyed Christian so much if I had delusions of being June Cleaver.
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Hey Dibi,
When is the angriest you’ve been with Christian?
- William Bweller
Dibi: Waiting in a hotel room in Tokyo for him to show up when we were scheduled to leave the country. Man, was I pissed! He strolled in with, like, one minute to spare and couldn’t understand why I was uptight. He had been out all night getting tattooed!
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Hey Dibi,
If Christian and Nathan were in a contest who are you cheering for?
- Dustin Hibbs
Dibi: Either. It’s not going to make a difference to me, and if it make a difference to them, that’s their stuff to work out.
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Hey Dibi,
Hey there. Where did the name Astrodeck come from? Any meaning behind it or just a name?
- Thomas Creager
Dibi: It was 1976, and everything was sleek and cool. We thought that “Astrodeck” was a great name for something that was the last part of a perfect-shaped surfboard - where your foot is planted for maximum torque in your turns. Christian used it to launch air, so it really ended up pretty okay.
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Hey Dibi,
The Fletcher’s make San Clemente. So what do you like about San clemente? It has been your home for years, yes?
- Rodrigo Parga
Dibi: I love running on the beach and riding my bike, and my family are all close-by, so it’s always home.
MEMBER OF MENSA
Tuesday, January 12th, 2010It’s always interesting to me how people have such perceptions and stereotypes of people. And especially people we don’t know. Hey, I’m guilty of doing that as well so it’s not like I’m writing this to condemn or condone. It’s just an observation and I’m writing it down.
Like, if I told someone I was a member of Mensa, I know what their reaction(s) would be. They’d be shocked, appalled, scared and questioning. And probably with good reason.
What if I were a fan of showtunes and knew the complete words, dialogue and dance steps to “Auntie Mame” and “West Side Story”? So?
What if I were a subscriber to the Wall Street Journal?
Maybe I weep during a great performance watching an opera.
Could I be any more dedicated to playing music on my grand piano?
I could have aspirations to be a contestant on Jeopardy one day. Who knows? You don’t know what I know. Maybe I know more than you. Maybe I know less than you. Alex Trebek wears a killer suit all the time.
Maybe one day I’ll go back to school. Culinary school? I think I could make a mean quiche if I really put my mind to it.
People have commented on here and on my Facebook about not being able to wrap their minds when it comes to me and sitting in front of a computer and blogging and networking. I guess they expect me to be out, bouncing off the walls 24/7 or on a skateboard nonstop. Shit, like I’m supposed to be out in the water surfing morning, day, and night. Well, I actually would if the swell was always that good and consistent…Anyway, my point is, I guess people want me to be out getting tatted up or busting out air or rock ‘n’ rolling all day and partying ev-er-y night.
But fuck, maybe…just maybe…sometimes I just like to sit in front of the monitor, cup of joe by my side, and read emails sent to be by my buddy Mark Gabriel. Mark sends me motivational photos with nature and fluffy little animals. That’s always inspirational. What? What are you laughing at? It’s true. Mark’s like fucking Confucius with all these life lesson sayings he sends to me in those emails. Haha. Fucken’ Scabs.
Well, I’m done writing for now. Maybe I’ll go work on a crossword puzzle now.






